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We're sorry to be meeting you this way

  • stsauthors
  • Aug 18, 2025
  • 3 min read

Updated: Oct 23, 2025

Welcome. We are so sorry you are here. Whether you are here for yourself or for a loved one, we are sorry. Grief is a journey that many experience, filled with emotions that can be hard to express. For those who have faced miscarriage and infant loss, it can feel as if the rest of the world carries on while they remain trapped in both heavy sorrow and silence.


Through our combined experiences, we strive to create a supportive space where women can find comfort, understanding, and hope. Each of us, despite our different backgrounds, shares a painful bond: the heartache of losing a child. Our steadfast faith in Jesus Christ has provided guidance during our darkest days, and it is this faith that sparked our desire to write this book.


The Inspiration Behind Surviving the Silence


Surviving the Silence originated from a simple gathering filled with laughter, tears, and shared stories. As we openly discussed our experiences, it became clear how much we needed each other’s support. We recognized a significant gap in resources for women dealing with miscarriage and infant loss. Research shows that approximately 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, highlighting the prevalence of this silent struggle. We longed for a positive, faith-based guide to navigate our grief and validate our emotions.


This realization fueled our commitment to create something meaningful. We sought to provide not only personal stories but also practical tools for healing. Our hope is that this book acts as a companion for those who feel isolated in their grief, reminding them they are not forgotten.


Understanding Grief and Its Many Faces


Grief is not a straightforward path; it varies for everyone and often takes unexpected turns. In Surviving the Silence, we examine many obstacles that hinder our healing and how each can impact daily life.


Society often adds pressure to "move on," leading many to hide their pain. Our book encourages readers to embrace their emotions—to speak openly about their loss and seek support from those who understand. By breaking the silence, healing can begin.


Faith as a Source of Strength


Faith has been a pivotal part of our healing journey. In Surviving the Silence, we share how a relationship with Jesus Christ has offered us solace during our hardest moments. A 2022 survey revealed that 63% of people who hold strong religious beliefs report feeling supported during times of grief. We include personal reflections and meaningful scripture to inspire readers through their journeys.


Through these passages, we hope individuals will find encouragement and strength to help guide them as they navigate their own grief.


Practical Tools for Healing


Beyond sharing our stories, Surviving the Silence provides actionable tools for healing. We offer exercises and prompts to help readers process their emotions. Activities like journaling, creating memory boxes, and crafting letters to their lost children foster reflection and connection.


Moreover, we emphasize the importance of self-care in the grieving process. It can be easy to overlook our needs in the shadow of grief. Our book includes practical tips for prioritizing self-care, such as setting aside time for short walks or simple breathing exercises, even amidst profound sorrow.


Building a Support Network


A strong support network is essential when navigating grief. We highlight the significance of surrounding ourselves with individuals who can validate our experiences. A supportive community can significantly aid in healing. For example, research shows that individuals with strong social ties can recover from loss quicker than those who isolate themselves.


Our book also offers guidance on expressing our needs to those around us. It can be challenging to articulate what we require during painful moments, yet open communication is crucial for establishing a supportive environment.


A Journey Towards Hope


Surviving the Silence stands as more than a book; it is a tribute to resilience, faith, and the strength found in community. We hope our stories resonate with readers, providing comfort and understanding. Grief is a journey that no one should navigate alone. With this book, we aim to foster a sense of connection and hope.


As we launch Surviving the Silence, we invite you to join us on this journey. Whether you are experiencing loss or supporting someone who is, we believe this book offers valuable insights and encouragement. Together, we can break the silence surrounding miscarriage and infant loss, creating a community of healing and hope.


Close-up view of a comforting book cover titled "Surviving the Silence"
Surviving the Silence, available now

Ultimately, our hope is that Surviving the Silence illuminates the path for those traversing grief's shadows. We are honored to share our stories and walk alongside you on this journey to healing. Remember, you are not alone, and there is hope even within the silence.

 
 
 

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